When Perfectionism Becomes Poison

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“Blame is the coward’s solution to failure.” – Pat Riley
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A well-known business guru just dropped a post that made me want to reach out, pull him close, and give him a warm, compassionate kick in the teeth.

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Here’s what it said…
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(post is shortened but all words are his — if you want to see the full post hit reply)

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​”I parted ways with 90% of my staff this week.

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People in this industry don’t know sh*t. I’ve hired people that worked that worked for big names, but they couldn’t even set up an automation without it breaking.

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Total trash. From now on everything will be built by me.

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Starting with these garbage reels I put out. I’m putting a FULL STOP on all IG posts by my team.”
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​And, as a hollow chorus of cheers rose from the comments section, I couldn’t help but think:

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You’re screwed, dude.

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You’re screwed, and you haven’t even realized it yet.

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Not because you’re stuck building everything on your own now (tough, but it can work)…

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…But because somehow, after all these years, you still don’t know what you signed up for when you became an entrepreneur.

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‘Cause here’s the deal:

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​When you become an entrepreneur, everything that goes wrong is now your fault.

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Period, full stop, end of story.

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If you’re in charge, you don’t have the luxury of pointing the finger at anyone else, because everyone else is your responsibility.

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If your employees aren’t performing, it’s your fault for hiring and/or mis-managing them.

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If your customers are complaining, it’s your fault for selling a product they complain about.

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If the market is changing and sales are slowing down, it’s your fault for not adapting fast enough.

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​The buck stops with you, bucko.

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Nobody else.

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After all, isn’t that why you became an entrepreneur in the first place?

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To take your future into your own hands, and step fully into your own creative power?

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If it is, then just remember:

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​Power follows responsibility.

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Whoever we point the finger at, we give power to.

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And pointing it at others leaves us powerless, because we don’t control others.

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So I recommend turning that finger back around, pointing it where it belongs, and stamping two simple words into your mind ’till they stay there:

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​”My fault.”

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Then, get back to work.

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​P.S. This just dropped:

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​5 Ways To Signal Confidence Without Saying A Word

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Banger clip from our Advanced Communication & Charisma session, on how your body, energy, and attention are silently speaking to everyone you meet.

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If you want more, the full 3 hour session is available to watch now inside The Path.​

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P.P.S. I’m still playing with the format of these weekly emails.

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I want to include the section below but I’m not sure where to put it yet, so I’m just gonna stick it here for now:
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​3 Things To Make Your Weekend Better

What to watch, listen to, and be inspired by this weekend.

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​Chris Williamson: Why we really do this work.​

This entire vlog is beautiful… But 18:30 is a moment I hope every entrepreneur gets to experience: The moment you realize you’ve built something you’re truly proud of, and in the process have become someone you’re truly proud to be.

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​The Brutal Truth About Running a $100k/mo Startup

A very real, very insightful, and very endearing story of two founders who are deep in the trenches right now… And winning.

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​Theo Von Bought A Katt Williams Statue​

Theo remains undefeated.
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“Did perpetual happiness in the Garden of Eden maybe get so boring that eating the apple was justified?” – Chuck Palahniuk

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