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The not so sexy secret sauce.
An ex client hit me with the question the other day and this seems to be a recurring theme for anyone who slides into my world.
“How do you do what you do?”
And I could feel it.
This little flicker of hope in their voice, like I was about to drop some ancient, mystical wisdom on their head.
Maybe I had a secret formula. A magical ritual. A holy grail of productivity that only the chosen few could access.
But here’s what I told them as I tell everyone…
I just show up.
That’s it. That’s the whole thing. I show up and do the work. Day in, day out. Rain or shine. Whether I feel like it or not. Whether it’s fun or it’s hell.
It’s not original advice, by the way. I didn’t invent it. Smarter people than me figured this out a long time ago.
People who’ve built empires, written masterpieces, created works that make the world stop and feel something.
And they all say the same damn thing. You show up and do the thing.
Even when it sucks.
Even when you’d rather be anywhere else.
Even when you’re sure it’s not good enough, or smart enough, or whatever enough.
I always wished that improvement would be like a strike of lightening. I’d be walking around outside and then bam all of a sudden I’m the best at whatever it is I’m doing.
And as much as I’m not a fan of the hustle grind culture I’m annoyed to say that it happens in the grind.
Like me, writing this email right now. Cause, trust me, I didn’t wake up today with fireworks in my chest and a hot muse sitting on my lap and whispering in my ear. But I’m writing it anyway.
Or when I’m teaching myself some absurdly complicated piece of music software that feels like it was programmed by a sadistic robot… but I keep poking at it, learning one thing at a time, because that’s how you get better.
Every time you show up, you’re turning the wheel. Maybe it’s a tiny turn. Maybe it feels like nothing’s moving at all. But it is. I promise you, it is.
And one day, you’ll look back and realise you’ve been doing the thing so long, so consistently, that you’re good at it. Maybe even great. And the people around you will ask, “How do you do it?”
And you’ll tell them the same thing…
I just show up.
So, go. Do the thing. Do it good or do it bad but as long as you’re doing it. You’ll get to where you want to be.
Even if you don’t feel like it.
That’s little Monday kick up the ass.
Stephen Walker
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The antidote for boredom is simpler than you think
You ever lay down and think about death?
Kind of like a creeping rot…
That’s what boredom is. It’s not harmless but it’s akin to death.
It’s the kind of thing that turns your brain into mush and makes your soul feel like it’s been left out in the sun too long.
(Obviously not here in England though cause it looks like it’s about to piss down tonight where I am)
But yeah. Nobody likes their soul feel brittle, cracked, and useless. That’s what boredom does before you inevitably want to crawl up into a ball and die.
But there is a cure. There is an antidote and it’s simple.
Will it cost you $997 to discover? Nope.
Just learn something.
Anything. Pick up a skill, dive into a topic, chase after something that sparks even a flicker of curiosity.
It doesn’t have to be related to what you do for work, or even what you think you’re “supposed” to care about.
I’ve just gotten back into music production and switched from using one piece of software to another. It’s hard because they work completely differently from one another. But the thing is I’m learning.
I mean you can take up woodworking. Learn to bake bread. Watch documentaries about black holes or ancient civilisations or competitive sheep shearing (yes, that’s a thing). It doesn’t matter.
What matters is that you’re feeding your brain, giving it something to chew on, something to stretch and grow with.
The cool thing is…
Whatever you learn will bleed into what you do. Always.
Bake bread, and you’ll start to see how patience and precision changes everything.
Study black holes, and suddenly you’re thinking about the vast, terrifying beauty of the unknown and how that applies to your own work. Even weird shit like sheep shearing teaches you something about focus, skill, and the weirdly satisfying joy of a job done well.
Learning keeps you sharp. It keeps you curious. And curiosity is the magic sauce for everything.
Without it, you’re coasting. And coasting is another word for stagnation, and stagnation is just boredom dressed up in a slightly fancier outfit that covers your own flesh vessel.
So, what are you learning today? And if the answer is “nothing,” then here’s your sign to fix that. Go pull on a thread. Follow it. See where it leads.
I mean the more you learn the more you become or whatever it is the fancy identity and belief shifting guru’s try sell to you.
And if you want to see competitive sheep shearing in action this is the type of shit that pops up on my youtube at around 2-3am
Stephen Walker
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